An Open Letter to Every Father Christmas

Dear Father Christmas,

I hope you don’t mind me writing to you but I felt I had to speak out and write to you, not just to the Father Christmas, but to every other Father Christmas that puts on that big red suit at this time of year. I know, this may not be your usual job, and it is very much seasonal, but in the eyes of children around the world as soon as you put that suit on you are Father Christmas. And that’s why I just had to write this letter.

An Open Letter to Every Father Christmas

You see, being Father Christmas is such an important job. It’s an honour and a privilege but, once you are suited and booted you really do have big shoes to fill – you need to be everything that Father Christmas is. You need to look like him, have his voice and have that twinkle in your eyes – that twinkle that is full of magic and festive cheer, that twinkle that shows that Christmas really is the most magical time of the year.

It takes a really special person to be Father Christmas. They have to believe. They have to want to make children happy, they have to want Christmas to be magical and they have to want to keep that magic alive for yet another generation of children who look forward to this season of carols, lights and jingle bells all the way through the year.

But, being Father Christmas may not be your first choice of vocation. You may be happy stacking shelves, beeping products through a checkout, serving hot drinks, discussing pensions or dealing with customer complaints all day. Wearing a red suit and hat may have been the furthest thing from your mind when discussing career choices at school.

An Open Letter to Every Father Christmas

But, there you are, given the most important job of the year. You have hundreds of children believing in you and looking forward to that special five minutes where they get to sit with you, tell you how good they’ve been all year and let you know which treasured gift they would most like to find under their Christmas tree when Christmas morning finally comes round.

In those five minutes you are that child’s hopes and dreams. You are their Christmas and you have such a huge responsibility. Many children’s dreams are shattered by a Father Christmas who is just too young, has a beard that doesn’t look too authentic or who is so slim he would never get stuck down the chimney.

An Open Letter to Every Father Christmas

There is nothing better at Christmas than meeting Father Christmas and knowing that he is the real deal. But there is nothing worse than meeting Father Christmas and knowing that he is just a poor imitation, sent by Father Christmas to stand in for him as we all know how busy he is at this time of year.

But whether you are the real McCoy or a stand in sent by Father Christmas himself, have pride in your job. Make those children happy and make sure you are as authentic as you possibly can be. A child’s Christmas magic really does depend on it.

If you are donning that suit for the first time this month make sure you are Father Christmas. The one that the children are hoping to meet – the one that looks like your grandad but with youth in his eyes and the one with the laugh that makes his belly wobble.

An Open Letter to Every Father Christmas

When you stand in your suit and look in the mirror do you see the Father Christmas? Or do you see a man in a suit who would rather be doing his day job? If it’s the latter then it is probably time to hang up your hat. Being Father Christmas isn’t about wearing a suit – it’s about putting on a suit and becoming everything that Christmas is made of. It’s about really being Father Christmas.

I appreciate you taking the time to read this letter, just as much as I appreciate you being Father Christmas. But, if your heart isn’t in it and if you don’t feel like Father Christmas this year then I’m sure there are plenty of other people who would love to help keep that Christmas magic alive – and who would be happy to take on that huge responsibility of really being Father Christmas.

Merry Christmas!

Lots of love,

The Wisharts x

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  1. Aww I love this post Donna, it made me smile because you are so right. We saw such an authentic one last year that I’m not sure the girls will believe in any of the others this year. We’ve booked to go and see him again though – I just hope it is the same wonderful Santa there this time!

  2. You are so right! I’ve seen some Santa’s and just thought ‘no no no, you aren’t Santa’. Kids only believe for such a short time, I hate the thought of a grumpy or non enthusiastic Santa ruining the magic for a child.

  3. Love this. We won’t be going to see Father Christmas this year – N isn’t that fussed. But yes, when you have one that stinks of smoke, or doesn’t smile or be interested in the children, it’s a bit rubbish

  4. We’ve not been to see a Father Christmas with the boys yet but there’s one near here that really does look the part (real beard and everything) and is really good by all accounts so maybe we’ll start the tradition this year 🙂

  5. I know a chap who plays Santa. Around August he stops shaving and grows his beard back again. Even though he has grey hair he has a bright white beard.

    We haven’t decided about whether to take Jaxon or not.

    I love this quote from Miracle on 34th Street “I’m not just a whimsical figure who wears a charming suit and affects a jolly demeanor. You know, I I I’m a symbol. I’m a symbol of the human ability to be able to suppress the selfish and hateful tendencies that rule the major part of our lives. If you can’t believe, if you can’t accept anything on faith, then you’re doomed for a life dominated by doubt.”

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